What Chores do They Complete?
Nate (nine and a half): Walk the dog, start the laundry or switch the laundry, take recycling to the curb, start the dishwasher or unload the dishwasher
Ruby (seven): Walk the dog, collect the laundry from the bathrooms and bring it to the laundry room, bring the empty garbage cans up from the curb, make the beds, organize the shoe closet
Sloane (four): Feed the dog, set the table, put away everyones shoes, vacuum up the never-ending crumbs with the handheld vacuum (her favorite).
Want to Know My Secret Weapon?
It's called "mom's choice."
What exactly is a "mom's choice?" It is my single favorite part of the chore chart.
A ‘mom’s choice’ is when I get to spontaneously choose something that needs to get done. For example, if the playroom is messy, I might choose that they straighten it. If the children’s bathroom is particularly gross, “mom’s choice” might mean giving it a wipe down. It is basically free license for me to ask them to do whatever I need in that moment. Yup! That's my secret weapon.
Do Your Kids do Chores?
Remember, every family is different, and there is no magic solution that will work for everyone. Let your child’s age and temperament guide the way for you. I REALLY hope that this post does not come off as sanctimonious. I hesitated to write it, because making other moms feel like they "should" be doing this or that IS NOT MY JAM. Instead, I wrote it because I think what we've come up with just might work for you. It might make your life easier....and we all need life to be just a little bit easier.
I would love to know what works in your family. Please tell me in the comments below.
Lastly, here are a few links for some other great ideas on chores and children:
· http://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/parenting-challenges/motivating-kids-to-clean-up/age-appropriate-chores
· http://www.scarymommy.com/kids-chores-more-successful-adults/
· https://www.pinterest.com/pin/57983913928431981/
Thanks for reading along,
Lizzie