The One Parenting Phrase You Need to Know
/The one phrase you need to say on repeat if you want to stop comparison in it’s nasty tracks
Friends, parenting do’s and don’ts are really hard to navigate… for everyone.
Did your best friend breast feed until her child was three and you want to bottle feed?
Are you feeling like it’s okay to co-sleep, and your sister strictly napped her little one in the crib at all times?
You want to send your toddler to school at two years old and your next door neighbor keeps telling you how she homeschooled all four kids through high school?
Different families have different rules.
The neighbor-children might not be allowed screens during the week while your family has shows every morning. Different families-different rules!
Your family might adhere to a no-sugar diet and your best friend’s family enjoys dessert every night. Different families, different rules.
Remember these phrases when your kids disagree with your rules and choices:
You can empathize without opening up the discussion of changing your mind.
You can feel comfortable around comparison.
Different doesn't mean better or worse. It just means different.
You are the captain of your own ship. You know what is best for your family. Believe in yourself.