How to Respectfully Decline Play

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You don’t have to play with your child every time they ask. Play is your child’s work, not yours.

“Can you play with me?”

“Not now, I’m in the middle of something”

“But PLEASSSEEE!”

We’ve all been in a position where we just don’t want to or can’t play at that moment.

The truth is, you don’t have to play with your kids EVERY time they ask you. Setting a clear, firm limit will encourage independent play. See below to find out how!

It can be hard for children to hear no, especially if that’s all they know or it’s what they’re used to.

Instead of saying something like, “not now”, tell them when you will be available. Help them get started, and remember, children like to be in eyesight of where we are. Set up a small basket of toys nearby and let your child play!

Here are some prompts that would be helpful for when you want to decline play:

Mom guilt is real, and that feeling like you HAVE to play with your children 24/7 is real too.

For more information and additional prompts and ideas, check out the Quiet Time and Independent Play E-book!

Check out some toys and activities below that are perfect for some quiet and independent play!

Giant Coloring Posters / Air Dry Clay / Animal Figurines /

Magnetic Wooden Blocks / Magnetic Building Tiles / Stacking Shapes

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